|For kids fighting||For couples fighting|
|We are not allowed to hit
And we are not allowed to bite
We are not allowed to kick and
we are not allowed to fight
We are not allowed to hurt, you want to know why?
Cause you don’t like it and neither do I.
|I see that you want something from me
But I want from you first – just give to me
If you don’t give me first you don’t love me you see
And so I will not give to you anything for free
|So what do I do when I am mad of course.
What do I do with that power and force.
What do I do when my smile is a frown?
How do I keep myself from pushing you down!
|You don’t respect me or you’d give it to me
I say I am in charge and you ignore me
How can you say that I don’t love you
How can I show love when you insult me through and through
|The first thing to know is Hashem made me out of love
The second thing to know is that He wants me to love.
Hashem is always here so there is nothing to fear
My power and force are up to me to steer!
|That is just your ego, thick as a rock
Don’t you have emotions, Mr Spock
I need to be loved and adored
How can I respect you when I am feeling ignored!
|Because Hashem made me there is love for me
Because Hashem made you He loves you too
If Hashem made you and me
Then He loves us both you see
Let’s be loving like Him cause we’re family.
|What are we fighting about you and me
We both know we are family
Not only that we are precious souls
Loved by Hashem and part of one mold
|How can I get my happy feelings back
How can I feel better after getting a smack
What will help if I don’t hit back
Hmm, I can say “ please its not okay to wack!”
|Let’s think about that for a moment you and I
Imagine that Hashem is with us, no need to cry
Because He is really here and our hearts we can steer
Let’s not misuse His strength- there is nothing to fear
|Then I can steer myself to jump up and down
I can steer myself to color with red and brown
I can run it off with a game of tag
Or we can have a tug of war with a rag.
|Open up our hearts and let our souls bloom
Set aside our egos let Hashem fill the room
He is the sole source of love and respect
Take a breath and re-connect!
|Would you like to jump with me up and down
Would you like to color with me red and brown
Would you like to have a good running game of tag?
Or would you like to play tug of war with a rag?
|The feelings that we have are for a faulty goal
What stirs inside us can make us whole
One with you and me and with Hashem you see
Release the “me” and let flow our vitality
|I bet you just want to play with me
I guess you didn’t know cause we are only two or three
That instead of giving a smack on my head to see
If I want to play, you can just ask me!
|Then we have invested in eternity
Then we have bliss after mortality
The process of fixing goes on temporarily
What it can bring us is bliss eternally
|Hashem makes us both nice, both you and me
He knows that we really are just two and three.
We don’t yet know how to control hands and feet
So let’s do what He wants and love each other when we meet.
|So yes I will give to you what you ask,
Whether or not you take on my task.
I do it for you because the love I show
Is a revelation of Hashem, you know.
|Patience is a way to steer power and force
I can understand when you loose it of course
It happens to me so I understand
Just say you’re sorry and let’s try again.
|And that is my motive and that is my why
Yes I can smile and I am not being coy.
I truly feel His love when I give to you
It heals something in me through and through.